Skip to content. My fiance and I frequently enjoy anal sex. We no longer use condoms with each other during vaginal sex or anal sex. He enjoys ejaculating in me during anal sex and I don't mind it. Immediately afterwards I go to the bathroom and get out his cum, but sometimes it takes awhile for it to all come out. I'm wondering if this is OK to do or if it is harmful to my body because I do enjoy it and would like to continue.
Sperm + Anal
SFCC :: Ask Dr. K : Men's Sexual Health - Health risk from semen in anus?
Can sperm cells be absorbed in the rectum and enter the bloodstream? What happens to sperm in rectum? The healthy rectum does not absorb sperm so no sperm cells pass into the bloodstream. When anal intercourse deposits sperm in the rectum, most of them quickly leave as the semen that carries them flows out of the anus. Any sperm that remain inside quickly die and their decomposed remains exit during defecation. However, under some circumstances, sperm deposited in the rectum can come in contact with blood.
Post-anal sex — what about the ejaculate?
You can only get pregnant if semen gets inside the vagina. It can happen if the guy ejaculates into or near the anus, and the semen leaks from there down onto the vulva. Semen on hands or fingers could also put it closer to the vulva, also.
According to a study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior , people in the United States seem to be having more anal sex today than they did in the past. In addition, the researchers learned that many women find anal sex enjoyable, while others find it painful or unpleasant and only agree to it due to some other factor. Common factors include feeling pressured by a sexual partner and wanting to avoid pregnancy, among others. Sexual activity should be a pleasant, enjoyable, and consensual experience for both partners. Check out our guide to consent.